“Paradoxically, the more we try to change ourselves, the more we hinder that very change. On the other hand, the more we allow ourselves to fully experience who we are, the greater the possibility for change.” – Laurence Heller
Toolkit to Build a Home Within Ourselves
While we float in an ocean of endless opportunities with restless hearts, it’s easy to lose our way. I’ve lost my way a few times, and I still do sometimes. But I’ve realized that there is nobody and nothing out there that holds the solution to my problems. The responsibility is mine—and it’s yours too.
So, let’s create a toolkit that helps us survive the storms and set our sails in the direction we want to go—no matter how strong the storm may be.
My Values and Priorities
Values. Everywhere I read about personal development, I see the word ‘values.’ I can’t ignore it. I’ve realized how important they are since I started exploring my own and using them. I’ve come to understand just how vital values are since I began to explore and embrace my own. For me, the foundation of everything I do in life rests on three core values: honesty, loyalty and independence. These values guide my choices, actions, and mindset, providing clarity and purpose in both the small and big moments of my journey.
Additionally, understanding our priorities is key to self-discovery and creating a life aligned with our true selves. For me, my top three priorities—health, personal development/purpose, and relationships—serve as guiding forces, helping me maintain balance and turn my visions and dreams into reality.
Now, I’d like to share the insights and benefits I’ve gained from these values and priorities and how I see the world today. Take what resonates with you and leave the rest.
